A Good Marriage Takes Mucho Time

Saturday, September 3rd, 2011 at 7:56 pm

Successful Marriages Take Mucho Time

Very often you may hear of a good marriage as being a mix of things that are good and …some that are very good. Kinda like the fixings that go into the making of a taco or fajita…mucho good!

“Marriage Isn’t A Word…It’s A Sentence.” Unknown Source

Food is always a good way to describe any thing, situation, idea, plan or desire in life. In married life it’s especially good because everyone gets to have some input to the making of a great marriage meal. that’s what a good marriage is!

First and foremost, let’s not even start with the blame game…the name calling…the should-da, would-da, and could-da’s! Those are the very things that can ruin any good time. And when you are preparing a festive meal and you leave out an ingredient that has been tested to make it turn out good…well that’s just inviting disaster. Then you end up with a marriage and problems.

Second, it does not always have to be a disaster in the making. Mucho time, mucho patience and mucho care in the preparation makes for a successful marriage dish. Much…Much…Much…that’s what a good marriage is!

Third, the primary and best solution to any relationship dispute or challenge in life regardless of the length of time married, is by far… that of communication.

Let’s face it. Time is one our worst enemies. If you don’t take advantage of something as it happens, you can find yourself behind the eight-ball rather quickly.
Take the upper hand, you can create your own mucho-gusto state of being…the great all out charge in life should be to make any and everything turn out good in your married life.

I am sure you have heard that time heals all wounds…well the fact of the matter is that time is the test tempter of all that we regard as sacred.
Time holds the keys to the outcome of our most precious fates. They are often refered to as what we remember as fleeting moments.

You have no-doubt done it or even said it a million times in your married life…”if only I had enough time.”
That’s when your mucho “if” far out weighs your mucho “can do.” And that needs to be fixed right away.

Slap some peppers and onions or spicy ground beef with a good sauce wrapped in the warm flat bread of your marriage and man…that is really really mucho good!

There is in all probability no such proper term as mucho. But that is the essence of life and marriage in particular…it takes all kinds of things to make it work.
Sometimes you find that you need to just make-up words that only apply to you that can describe your feelings, emotions or situation.

This time around, my description of my successful marriage in mucho! It’s Grrrrreat.

-Lon-