Marriage Problems…Bite Me…Again!

Friday, February 10th, 2012 at 10:24 pm

This is a revisit to what got me started on writing this post in the first place. Oddly enough, we’re coming up on that heartfelt time of the year when we lavish love upon one another. Well bite me again.

It all started a few years ago with a man, a woman, an apple and a snake.

Well actually the saying “bite me” derived in recent history, but the result is the same. It comes down to communication in marriage. He said…she said.”

In the world of marriage problems, every marriage has it’s ups and downs and mostly there are a lot of ups to it. When it comes to money in a marriage, there is something o sink your teeth into. It starts out innocently enough with a little too much spending and when it gets tricky enough t,hat you need help, you begin to scramble and sometimes you can get lost in all the goodness that others offer in trying to save you.

Just one of the many trials and tribulations of men and women. There is so much to find out about living in a more about having a happy marriage, not one full of problems.

Not thinking. Well, not thinking …in the moment. A marriage moment

See….she has a grand idea that all is well and he …just flat out is… not thinking. Now you add to the mix deception…the wrangler that instigates and you have…what is marriage. Anyone with any time at all vested in a relationship can tell you that problems in a marriage is basically that of miscommunication. If you don’t or refuse to at least talk about the basics of sharing, loving and communicating with one another, then yes…there will be problems. Money is very often times the cause it and can be overcome with those simple solutions mentioned.

Back there a few years ago in that Garden of Eden, temptation ran afoul and slithered down a branch of the wisdom tree and left a message that maybe you should go ahead and bend the rules a little bit. Well, we all know just how that little venture turned out!
Now let’s not blame it all on a little ‘ol sneaky snake.
The are many many other temptations that fit this little scenario…and that’s what we’ll be talking about as we continue our travels to the land of love and marriage and money.

Being empowered to take charge of your situation is probably the best thing that could ever happen to you…either one or the both of you. Take a bite out of the responsibility pie every once in a while and you’ll be happy to learn that it not only tastes pretty good but the only weight that you will gain is that of lean muscle in making your marriage and relationship stronger in the process.

Really and truly, I am glad that you stopped by. I look forward to your comments and feedback as well as some pretty good stories from your side of the kitchen table as we share a cup of kindness!

A Friend in Business…and Life…Always,

-Lon-